The Assessment
CHF 1,800
A 90-minute deep-dive session, your written compatibility profile and dating strategy, and one curated introduction from the vetted shortlist. The full amount credits toward The Search if you continue within 60 days.
Matchmaking for women · Zürich
A search, run properly.
You are the client. Every man on your shortlist has been interviewed, vetted, and evaluated against your criteria, or found for you when he isn't already in the room.
We take on a limited number of searches at a time.
The apps aren't broken. They're working as designed.
A dating app has one commercial job: to keep you on it. The business is measured in monthly active users and time on screen, not in relationships that last. Your continued searching is the product. The longer your search runs, the better their quarter looks. Nobody at any app is paid to get you off the app.
You know the rest because you've lived it. The hour a day of screening strangers. The conversations that build for a week and evaporate mid-sentence. The profiles that turn out to be marketing. The feeling of running a recruiting operation for your own love life, sourcing, screening, scheduling, all of it after work, with no one accountable for the outcome but you.
Nearly four in five users now describe the experience as exhausting. That isn't a personal failing. It's the system performing to spec.
We built the opposite incentive. You engage us to end your search. Our contract is finite, our introductions are guaranteed in number, and our best possible outcome is that you leave us, happily, and never come back. A search that concludes is our success. On the apps, it's their churn.
You know what a rigorous search looks like: defined criteria, qualified candidates, structured evaluation, a feedback loop, and someone accountable for the result. You run searches like this professionally. You've simply never had one run for you.
Who this is for, two short profiles:
- You want a partner and, in time, a family, and the apps have burned two years you didn't have to spare. You're not desperate. You're done being inefficient.
- You've raised your standards, not lowered them. You want character, ease, and an equal, and you'd rather meet three right men than thirty random ones.
The differences that end relationships are invisible on date one.
Most relationships don't end over chemistry. They end over structure: mismatches no profile displays and no first date reveals. How each of you recovers after conflict, alone and quickly or together and slowly. Whether care is transmitted through words or through acts, and whether you can read each other's dialect. What distance does to you: breathing room or quiet alarm. What your nervous system asks for mid-argument: space, or resolution now. What money is actually for: security, freedom, or the life it buys someone you love. Whether home is a place or a person. How much of a life should be shared by default.
In a structured interview, we place every member and every client along these spectrums, alongside the essentials people can name: children and timelines, faith, geography, lifestyle, pace of life. The result is a compatibility profile that goes into every search and sharpens with every introduction.
Informed by relationship science, conducted by trained matchmakers. There is no test that predicts love. There is a structured way of not discovering the important things two years too late. This is that.
How the search works.
We start with you.
An intake session in person or by video, then a structured compatibility profile: the spectrums above, your essentials, and the life you're actually building.
We define the search.
Your criteria, your dealbreakers, your timeline. Written down and agreed before anyone is approached.
We search.
Your matchmaker screens the vetted shortlist and headhunts beyond it: warm networks, targeted outreach, the way executive recruiters find people who aren't looking. We don't stop at a database.
You approve first.
You see a full profile before any introduction. No blind dates, no surprises, no "just trust us."
We debrief and refine.
After every date, structured feedback flows both directions. Each introduction makes the next one sharper.
Three ways to begin.
The Search
CHF 6,900six months
A dedicated matchmaker, your compatibility profile, a minimum of six vetted introductions sourced from the shortlist and through targeted outreach, your approval before every introduction, and structured debriefs that recalibrate the search as it runs.
We are opening with five founding clients in Zürich at CHF 4,900, with direct access to the founder and a say in how this service is built. When the five places are filled, this offer closes.
The Private Search
CHF 22,000twelve months
Everything in The Search, fully bespoke: headhunting beyond the shortlist across Zürich, Geneva, Munich, Frankfurt, Amsterdam, and London. Capped at five concurrent clients. By application.
We guarantee introductions, effort, and honesty. No one can guarantee love, and you should walk away from anyone who says otherwise. Under Swiss law you may end a matchmaking agreement at any time; our contract says so in plain language.
A note from Marielle.
I came to Zürich the way many of us do: for the work, with a full life, and with a dating market that made no sense to me. What I wanted existed everywhere in my professional world and nowhere in my personal one: a real search, run by someone accountable to me. So I built it, for women first, because no one else had. I interview every member myself. That's the product.
Marielle, Founder
Your shortlist doesn't exist yet.
One conversation changes that.
Intake sessions are limited each week. By appointment only.